Here's a curious thing: the "best" position is rarely the most acrobatic… but the one that feels easy, comfortable and connected. If you're looking for ideas to mix things up without complicating your life, here's a ranking of favourites (the timeless classics and a few with a twist), explained simply.

1) Face to face (the intimate classic)

Why people love it: it lets you look at each other, kiss and set the rhythm together.
Ideal for: romantic nights and total connection.
Quick tip: a pillow under the hips can improve comfort.

2) Side by side (spooning)

Why people love it: it's relaxed, warm and perfect if you want something slow.
Ideal for: when you're tired, for lazy mornings or quiet plans.
Quick tip: try adjusting the distance with one leg slightly forward.

3) Her on top (rhythm made to measure)

Why people love it: it gives control over rhythm and depth, and tends to be very comfortable.
Ideal for: exploring unhurried and finding what fits best.
Quick tip: leaning on the headboard or the chest helps keep balance.

4) Him on top (the "always works")

Why people love it: it's the classic for a reason: simple, direct and easy to synchronise.
Ideal for: when you want to play it safe.
Quick tip: slower + more communication = better results.

5) From behind (intense and practical)

Why people love it: it changes the sensations without much complication.
Ideal for: mixing things up and raising the energy a little.
Quick tip: try gentler versions (side-lying or leaning) for more comfort.

6) Seated (sofa or edge of the bed)

Why people love it: it combines closeness, control and a different touch.
Ideal for: when you want something "new" without acrobatics.
Quick tip: the edge of the bed helps you find a stable posture.

Mini guide to choosing "the best one" for the occasion

5 keys to making any position a success

  1. Brief, direct communication: "slower / yes, like that / perfect".
  2. Comfort first: pillows and small adjustments make the difference.
  3. Rhythm over speed: "well paced" wins.
  4. Zero pressure: if it doesn't flow, you change and that's it.

Atmosphere: soft light, music and calm raise the level.